Difficult heritage

Is there any more helpless sight than that of a train you should still be on streaking away from you as you stand upon the platform at the wrong station? After six months on the road it is possible that Emma and I are getting a little too relaxed when it comes to our travel movements. We jumped on the train in Denmark and got off when we saw a station sign that said Berlin. Except it wasn’t the right Berlin. Sigh.

Fortunately, the station at which we alighted was on the outskirts of the Berlin metro and so all was soon well and we were whizzing our way through town on the ‘S-bahn’ towards our Airbnb apartment. Which we didn’t leave until nearly 2.00pm the next day. It was one of those ‘what’s the rush’ kind of days. Eventually we made it out the door and headed for the only real Berlin attraction Emma and I had stored away in our brains. The Berlin Wall.

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A section of the remaining Berlin Wall

The Wall of course is well known, but if you’re anything like me you probably only have a fairly rudimentary understanding of what went on here and why. It’s such a privilege to have the chance to peruse the various museums here and then wander around the sites where history unfolded.

The wall sprung up literally overnight back in 1961 as former allies turned enemies. It was an attempt by the Soviets to stem the tide of people flowing from east to west as people voted with their feet for which ideology the preferred to live within. Families and friends going about their daily lives were irrevocably divided overnight. Footage of people calling and waving to each other over the wall but unable to get to each other is heartbreaking.

Things got really interesting for a while in September 1961. A dispute erupted over whether East German guards were authorized to examine the travel documents of a U.S. diplomat who thought a night at the opera in the east might be pleasant. The allies didn’t think much of that and rolled a few tanks up to the border at ‘Checkpoint Charlie’. The Soviets responded in kind and each then preceded to stare at each other down their gun sights, a hairs breadth from rolling on into World War III.

Checkpoint Charlie today is a replica of the original which was dismantled long ago. It has been built for tourists seeking a taste of the Cold War era atmosphere. It works too. Take a look at a photo of the tanks staring each other at the nearby Blackbox Museum, then look down the road at the recreated Checkpoint Charlie and your imagination can do the rest. It’s palpable and fascinating and cheesy all at once.

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Checkpoint Charlie with the tanks in 1961
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Checkpoint Charlie in 2016
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A popular photo spot these days

Equally fascinating is the Berlin Wall itself. Only about a kilometre of the 150 kilometre wall is left, but it’s enough. Enough to feel rather than necessarily understand the impact the division of east and west must have had when it was thrust up in 1961. Of course the wall quickly became the focal point for the clash of ideologies and came to represent the ensuing ‘Cold War’. A large part of what’s left of the Wall is now an ‘art gallery’ decorated with colourful graffiti. Along with much of the rest of Berlin I might add. Graffiti is almost everywhere you go.

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Some more of the Berlin Wall
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Graffiti across from our local train station

It might have something to do with the fact that the Berlin local government is pretty much bankrupt and can’t afford to clean up the mess. ‘Berlin. Poor but Sexy’ adorns T-shirts across the city. It’s a quote from the previous Berlin Mayor Klaus Wowereit that clearly hit a nerve with the locals. Apparently they owe more than 69 billion euros and the German Federal Government has refused to bail them out. I found Berlin fantastic, but a little scruffy. Maybe that’s why.

We were told if you talk to the locals you’ll find that World War II and the Cold War are chapters in history they would prefer to forget. Hence why there is so little Wall now left standing. Talk to the tourists and you get the feel that a little more Wall wouldn’t be a bad thing. It’s a difficult heritage.

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A section of undecorated wall with Luftwaffe HQ behind

Berlin seems to have more than its fair share of difficult heritage. ‘Paris will always be Paris, but Berlin will never be Berlin’, so one saying goes. It was bombed to oblivion during World War II. 80% of buildings were destroyed and so most of the city is relatively new. A few war era buildings still stand. They’re easy to spot. Just look for bullet holes in the facades. The current owners are apparently keen to knock them down and start again, but the tourists want them left alone because of their historical significance.

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Bullet holes

Difficult heritage is in fact almost everywhere you look. On the pavement scattered throughout the city are ‘Stumbling stones’ – little bronze plaques of which there are now 27,000 found all over Europe. Each one has the name of a victim of the Nazi Holocaust and the name of the place where they died. We could recognise some of the concentration camp names. The plaques appear outside the homes of the victims, and the project has become the single biggest Holocaust memorial in Germany. It is one way modern day Germany is seeking to reconcile the past.

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Stumbling Stones

Then there is the Memorial to the Murdered Jews of Europe, just a stones throw from the Reichstag (Parliament) building and covering an area of several city blocks. It’s the largest monument to an historical event I’ve come across and is indicative of efforts to put the past to rest.

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Memorial to the Murdered Jews of Europe

We took all this in on a ‘Fat Tire Tours – Third Reich Tour’ of Berlin. We’d highly recommend it. I love their Mission Statement, ‘Walking is Stupid’. Even if I don’t agree! It covered some pretty heavy history. Enough to totally fascinate Emma and I and enough to introduce the events of World War II to Amy and Oliver, while combining it with bike riding which is just fun no matter what you’re looking at!

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Bike tourists
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Berlin’s TV tower
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Brandenburg Gate

As well as passing by parts of the modern city we would never otherwise have seen, we visited the courtyard where Claus Schenk Graf Von Strausenberg was executed for his failed plot to assassinate Hitler (there’s a movie about it with Tom Cruise called Valkyrie); the still standing headquarters of the Luftwaffe (now the tax office); a pock marked concrete bomb raid shelter with walls four metres thick; the remaining wall of the World War II era Berlin central train station from which Berlin’s Jews (and others like political prisoners) were deported to their horrendous fate; and the courtyard in which the infamous Nazi book burning took place.

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Bomb shelter – too difficult to dismantle
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Train station entrance wall

The tour finished up at a most innocuous looking carpark. Gravelled, without gutters, unkempt edges and ordinary coppers log bollards. You’d walk right past it over and over again without thinking about it once, let alone twice. It is just plain unremarkable. What lies below however is the bunker in which Hitler and Eva Braun took their lives as the allies closed in on them in the final days of the war.

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The carpark above Hitler’s bunker

A skip-bin sits atop the approximate location of the room below where they met their fate and a small, inconspicuous interpretive board marks the site of the bunker complex. It is history not to be celebrated just as it is not to be forgotten. There are other ways to come to terms with the past like the memorial and plaques mentioned earlier.

On a cheerier note, the beer in the ‘biergarten’ at lunch time was magnificent. As was the performance by the Berlin Symphony Orchestra, staged free of charge somewhere in the centre of downtown one evening. We parked ourselves on the pavement along with maybe 10,000 others and listened happily while the orchestra belted out Beethoven’s 3rd symphony, feeling very cultured all the while.

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Enjoying the German ale
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Enjoying the symphony

The orchestral performance was just down the road from the Berlin Amplemann shop. The Berlin Amplemann being the pedestrian traffic light symbol used by the east Berliners during the years of separation while the west adopted a much more mundane character. After re-unification the west’s figure took over the city until the more beloved, attractive and just generally better little eastern guy made a comeback. Some clever entrepreneur then went to town on merchandising and you can now buy everything from Amplemann cookie cutters to playing cards and everything in between.

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Amplemann
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Amplemann fan at the symphony

For years now Amy, Oliver and I have been crossing roads mimicking the pose of the local Amplemann for wherever we were. Emma usually rolls her eyes at us during these times and pretends she’s not with us. The east Berlin Amplemann is undoubtedly the best of them all and so we just had to have T-shirts. I think it’s the first souvenir I’ve purchased in six months.

Berlin is a moving city. So much history, so much of it difficult, and all recent enough to live fresh in the memory. Maybe if you are a resident the Cold War and World War II are not front of mind as they were for us during our three days. We were however told by our tour guide, now a Berlin local, that it’s not too far below the surface either. Time heals, but more time is needed.

Of course there is far more to Berlin than just the Cold War and the Nazis. It’s just that three days is not enough to take it all in, especially when you don’t leave the apartment until after lunch some days. Still, it’s nice to have something in mind for a return visit and our Berlin to do list is almost as long as the London one!

 

6 months done

Yesterday (7 July) it was six months since we left home. Six months on trains, planes, automobiles and living in hotels, homestays, tents and Airbnb’s.

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Leaving home

I remember wondering before we left if we would get sick of travel. If living out of a suitcase would wear thin. If we would get homesick after a time. If we would tire of moving from one place to another. I worried about having enough money to complete the journey and about one or all of us getting sick. I dreaded the thought that something might happen to Amy or Oliver. I even wondered, on occasion, if the world might disappoint. That after going to all the trouble of taking time from work, packing up the house and taking Amy and Oliver out of school we would discover there is nowhere better than home.

When I read that list again, it’s a wonder we went anywhere! So how do my worries stand-up against reality? Well, as of yesterday I can honestly say that my wanderlust has increased not diminished. I would dearly love to spend more time almost everywhere we have been and I feel no compulsion to return home. Yet. Homesickness then? Nope. None. I think the same can be said for Emma, and if you have just read that then it survived her editing and must be true!

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Tracing our path

The picture is a little greyer for Amy and Oliver. Amy misses her friends and all of our extended family, jumping at every chance to put in a Facetime or Skype call. She also recoils a little at any fanciful suggestion that one year of travel be stretched to two. Which is not to say she’s not enjoying the trip. In Amy’s perfect world I think you would all be along with us for the ride! Oliver has changed over the last six months from being a bit unsure about it all to one of travels stronger advocates. ‘Go home! Are you kidding!’. I’m sure I’ve heard him say this from time to time.

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Amy working on a Skype call in Kathmandu airport

As to other concerns, there is no rational reason that anyone is any more likely to become ill out here than at home nor any reason why peril is more likely to present itself here than there. The last of my worries however, that the world might disappoint, was surely the most ridiculous. Talk about going out of your way to find something to worry about!

Everywhere we go presents new fascinations; historic, natural, culinary or simply in the subtle differences in the layout of a supermarket. Australia is a wonderful place. It’s a fine part of an even finer tapestry which is, as they say, altogether more than the sum of its component parts. Oh yes, and so far we are a bit under budget, which means I am now starting to relax.

Having said all of that, we are changing as we go. The edge has come off our eagerness. There is no need to rush out the door. Every time it opens the view is different and dealing with that sometimes means lingering a little longer in the hotel room each day doing ‘normal’ stuff. Time is needed to process experiences and for more mundane activities like making bookings, reading books, preparing and doing school work, writing blogs and postcards and, you know, banking.

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Schoolwork and blogging with friends in Thailand

We are changing in other ways too. You think you know your partner and your children, but I’m not sure you really do until you live with them 24 hours a day 7 days a week for months on end. At home little irritations can be glossed over because they happen five minutes before everyone heads out the door and goes their own way for 8 hours. By the time you regroup, the matter is long forgotten, but not necessarily dealt with. On the road, little irritations can become a major rub, if they are not soothed beforehand.

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Togetherness is 4 people in here

We each have our anxieties and personality quirks. Of our foibles, I have a propensity to worry and overanalyse, self-evident perhaps from my admission re concern that travelling the world might disappoint. I can also get overexcited about things on occasion which has a tendency to drive everyone else nuts.

Emma can be anxious and controlling when it comes to matters of our collective health and safety and has a reasonably short fuse when it comes to hijinks and silly noises. Amy is very wary of the unknown and can find the days which involving moving from one accommodation to the next somewhat stressful. Oliver has a tendency to make oddly irritating noises from time to time, a perfect match for Emma, along with a highly developed sense of justice.

There were times earlier in this trip when the mix of these lead to… tensions. Back in South East Asia I recall at times wishing that we could all be more co-operative and cohesive. Little feuds would sometimes become tiresome and unvoiced irritations gnawed around the edges. Thrashing out home-schooling arrangements was a fairly constant battle which didn’t really help. It was like nobody expected we would actually go through with it and if it was ignored hard enough it would just go away.

We’ve moved on for the most part. After six months on the road I think it would be fair to say each of us has developed a much healthier respect for the others ‘buttons’ and is inclined to push upon them less often. Oliver is a case in point with a notable transition from agitator to happiness enforcer. ‘No, no, no grumpies’ he would often say with a waggle of his finger whenever a sniff of tension was aired.

School work too, is no longer the battle it was earlier on. The constant debates about journal writing which dogged our early months on the road have largely gone. It’s still not Amy or Oliver’s favourite activity, but they have come to accept it has to be done. Of equal, if not greater value, than bookwork however are the many discussions we embark upon into the history and happenings of the regions through which we travel.

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Amy’s schoolwork 

It is a marvellous thing to be there to help fill in some of the blanks when Amy and Oliver embark upon a line of genuine, curious questioning about what we’ve seen or what’s going on or why things are the way they are where we are… or were… These discussions are not branded ‘school work’, so the conversations can go on for quite some time with focus and thought. We have covered various aspects of global economics, politics, history, geology, geography, ecology, languages and relative merits of various forms of societal organisation including democracy, monarchy, communism, capitalism, socialism and recently fascism as well.

There is no doubt in my mind that Amy and Oliver are developing an appreciation for people, places, cultures, religions and history that would be impossible to replicate from home. So, for that matter are Emma and I. I sometimes feel like we’re on a field trip for world history, with each place we visit filling in detail or blanks from fragmented pieces of information gleaned over the years from who knows where.

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We filled in some gaps in our Roman history

To the extent this is the case for Amy and Oliver, in their own way, book work becomes the stuff of how to translate thoughts and understandings to paper, and crunch the numbers for your pocket money given different exchange rates and work out if that gelato represents anything approaching ‘value for money’. Learning about the world happens by osmosis, in sights and sounds, through books shared and conversations that seem to go on for hours when it really is time to go to bed.

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Buying cucumbers at a Danish market

It is interesting too, standing apart from the business and preoccupations of the people who dwell in the places we visit. I recognise myself in the faces of tired looking commuters on metro trains across Europe. Bored, but resigned to their daily fate. I wonder if they know how much of their experience they share with others the world over, or whether they are lost in their own internal wrangling. I wonder, if they wonder why they do it? I wonder what are they working for and what’s going on in their lives?

In most places we have freedom by virtue of the countries we live in, but how many people actually exercise that freedom and how many unconsciously follow the paths and norms handed out by tradition and social imperatives? How many ride the metro each day because an alternative is hidden from view? Then I wonder how much of what I do and have done is also shaped by tradition and social imperatives and how much a matter of conscious choice? I rather suspect more belongs in the category of the former rather than the latter.

When we first started travelling for long periods in 2011, I felt guilty. I felt like taking time out was shirking my responsibilities and, to a degree, that travel was the domain of the retired. Responsibility to whom was not clear nor consciously questioned. We had saved enough money to support ourselves without being a burden on anyone else, at least for a time, so what responsibility was not attended to? And who is to say that you have to be retired to see the world? Where did the notion that work is the absolute imperative come from and how is it perpetuated? These things I ponder.

And ponder we will for a little longer yet. We’ve seen so much and done so much already and we’ve only visited fourteen countries. Aren’t there more than 200? I wonder what is coming next?

 

Friends in Denmark

Denmark. It wasn’t on our list of places to visit, but that was before we met Britt, Morten, Seigne, Sebastian and Sigurd on a river boat on the Mekong. Some people you meet you never see again. Others linger for a while and a few become friends. We have been so lucky to meet three families on this trip that fall into the last category. We knew as soon as we said goodbye to Britt and Morten back in Luang Prabang that if we got the chance we would pay a visit to Danish shores.

The budget airline gods must have thought this a good idea because it’s cheap as rotten haggis to fly from Edinburgh to Copenhagen. We also figured a trip to Denmark would set us up nicely for a southern migration through Germany into Switzerland and the French Alps later on.

We arrived into Copenhagen late at night because of delays and milled about nervously at the airport hoping we were in the right spot for our Uber driver to pick us up. We were, or he was, or both, so we jumped in the car with a very friendly Danish fellow and were on our way. Our Airbnb was very Scandinavian with a funky loft that had Emma and I dreaming up grand renovations for our place. These may or may not come to fruition – who knows. Life is a splendid but unknowable thing.

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Our Copenhagen apartment

The first thing you notice about Copenhagen, even as the hour approaches midnight, are the bikes. They’re everywhere. Everywhere. The Danish ride everywhere and the whole place is set up so they can do so. Bike lanes sit between the road and footpath almost everywhere you go. Need to travel further afield? No worries, the trains all have carriages dedicated to bikes.

Biking is serious business, so much so it is said that the only way to upset a Dane is to get in the way of his or her bike. Our Airbnb host wouldn’t let his son ride to school until he was twelve despite all this bike friendliness. In some parts of town there is some really serious commuting going on.

Not that we found this to be a problem. So many people ride bikes that the traffic never really builds up, a matter affirmed by our Uber driver, and what’s more the road rage battle which seems to exist between drivers and bikers in Australia is totally absent. Yep, we liked Denmark from the start.

I liked it even better when we visited the Royal Palace, by bike, a couple of days later. The big fluffy hat wearing guards here bear a striking resemblance to those at Buckingham palace, except here they’ll actually talk to you. I liked that. It’s altogether less pretentious and a whole lot friendlier. I asked if the Queen was home while Amy and I posed next to the guard for a photo.

‘No she’s gone sailing’ replied the guard.

‘Just for the day’, I asked?

‘All summer’, the guard replied.

I guess she likes sailing and isn’t too worried about any Scottish style plots to remove her from the throne. Those Scots sure did like murdering their monarch for several hundreds of years there. I forgot to write about that last time, but all you really need to know is that if you sat on the throne of Scotland there was a good chance you’d be dead within a year, two at the most. Britt did tell me that the Danish Queen’s husband is a bit upset the she won’t make him king. He’s a Frenchman and apparently the populace doesn’t approve of the idea. Maybe she had better not stay out on the water too long.

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Guarding, chatting and posing – tough job!

 

If it’s good enough for the Queen, it’s good enough for us. So we went sailing too. We caught one of those sleek looking European canal boats for a tour of Copenhagen. It was a very touristy thing to do but really worthwhile, walking that far is hard work. Along the way we came across a most remarkable, unremarkable thing. The Little Mermaid. She is one of the most visited spots in all Copenhagen. Seen by millions of people every year.

It’s a statue of a mermaid on a rock, about a metre high, from the story by Denmark’s favourite son, Hans Christian Anderson. The people come in multiple bus and boatloads at a time and for the life of me I can’t see why. I mean, it’s nice’n’all, but… am I missing something? Still, ‘when in Rome…’ so the saying goes so we visited too.

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Copenhagen by riverboat
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The Little Mermaid

 

Having seen Copenhagen, mermaid and all, we jumped on a train to Odense where Britt met us at the railway station. It was a little surreal to find a friend we’d met half a world away waiting for us another half a world away. By that evening we were feeling well and truly at home. I felt like part of the furniture so deeply was I nestled on the couch with Morten, drinking beer, eating peanuts and watching the European Championship. I don’t normally go in for football but, ‘when in Rome…’. Gooooo Iceland! Nobody expected Iceland to make the quarter finals, but they deposed the English in a European Championship upset. This being at one with the couch went on for three nights straight.

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Greg & Morten at one with the couch

It wasn’t all beer and peanuts though. Britt and Morten’s hedge needed trimming, so I helped trim it although they may have been better off leaving me out of it. I sliced the extension cord for the third time in my illustrious hedge trimming career. ‘Ah, Morten. We’ve got a problem…’.

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What to do?

My error was rewarded only with Danish delicacies including ultra-fresh strawberries, cream and sugar and chocolate wafers on a bread roll. You have no idea how good that is. I think I put on 2 kilos in a week, despite the bike riding, hedge trimming and the occasional run. Britt did also make Emma and I try the salted Danish liquorice – piratos. The equivalent of an Australian offering vegemite to someone of any other nationality. Entertaining to watch, hard to swallow!

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Delicious… not!
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Britt and Morten watching us eat the liquorice
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Dessert!

Between the football, the eating and the gardening we also learnt a bit about the Vikings at a nearby Viking museum, played a round of mini-golf out at Kertiminde (say Kerdiminnay…I think), cycled around Odense, visited Hans Christian Anderson’s house and took a drive to the west coast and back where the horizon was a blaze of colour with kite-surfers.

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Entertainment at the Viking Museum
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Replica Viking burial ship
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When your friends are tired after a big day out
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Hans Christian Anderson’s house
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Playground fun we found on a bike ride

 

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Never seen this many kite surfers before!
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A windy picnic at the beach!

We also took a day on our own to visit Legoland, Lego being a Danish invention after all. To say Legoland was a hit with the younger members of the family would be a gross understatement. Oliver looked over at Emma and I on one ride and stated in a very matter of fact way, ‘well this is actually quite fun’, before grinning and turning his attention back to the action.

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The rain kept the crowds away
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Hall of mirrors
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Amazing Lego dragon
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This display was huge!
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Amy discovered she loved roller coasters, the train was a bit sedate
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Nyhavn Lego display
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Nyhavn in real life (in Copenhagen)

Just shy of ten fun filled hours passed before we turned tail and headed for home. Ten hours during which we were picked up and thrown around by more devices than my usually robust constitution could take. I felt a little off colour for a fair portion of the afternoon and thanked the Lego creators for the slow boat through Mini-land to recover my equilibrium. Slower than walking pace, it was still plenty quick by days’ end.

More enjoyable though than all of that was whiling away the hours in Danish suburbia with Danish friends. The kids played games in the backyard and did crafts, happily passing up opportunities to visit more castles. It was the most normal we have all felt for 6 months and seven days felt like it was over before it had begun.

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Indoor fun
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Outdoor fun
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Football at the nearby school
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Good mates!
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The result of an all day craft project!

It was with some sadness that we packed up and bid Britt, Morten, Seigne, Sebastian and Sigurd goodbye. We hope we planted enough seeds to entice them down under someday soon.

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Wonderful friends!